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		<description><![CDATA[In the language of the New Testament, the word compassion comes from the word sumpathes, from which we get our word ‘sympathy or sympathetic’. Compassion is rooted in a word that means ‘to experience pain together’. Someone said it this way, “Compassion is your pain in my heart.” When you and I have sympathy for [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>In the language  of the New Testament, the word <em>compassion</em> comes from the word <em> sumpathes,</em> from which we get our word ‘sympathy or sympathetic’.   Compassion is rooted in a word that means ‘to experience pain together’.   Someone said it this way, “Compassion is your pain in my heart.”   When you and I have sympathy for someone, we feel their pain. Sympathy, <em> or compassion</em>, is an emotion.</p>
<p>Compassion  is oftentimes mistakenly identified as love, though is it not like agape  love.  If you say of someone in a relationship, “Oh, I don’t  love them anymore,” what you probably mean is “I no longer have  compassion for them.  I have no more feeling in my heart for their  pain.”  But, we mistakenly call it <em>love</em>.  In fact, oftentimes  people confuse <em>being in love</em> with <em>having compassion.</em> Compassion is an emotion that one has for someone.  The Bible says  agape love is a love that never fails.  Agape love is <em>not</em> an emotion; it is a decision and a commitment.  When you love someone,  you may not have compassion for them, but you may still (and you ought  to still) have a commitment for them.  In other words, “I am  still committed to monogamy in our relationship.  I’m still going  to be responsible to my duties.”  But, it’s nice when there is feeling  that goes along with it.</p>
<p>Compassion  is used directly forty-one times in our English Bible.  The first  time it is used is along a river in Egypt where Pharaoh’s daughter  is bathing and finds a little ark, or boat, floating down the river.   When she opened the lid on that little boat, there was a baby in there,  and the baby began to cry.  Of course, we all know this was the  baby Moses.  The Bible says, <em>“And when she had opened it she  saw the child and behold the babe wept and she had compassion on him  and said this is one of the Hebrew children.”</em> She <em>suffered  with him</em>.  That’s actually how that word is translated in  Romans 8:17, “<em>And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs  with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him </em> (sumpathes),<em> that we may be also glorified together.” </em> In I Corinthians 12:26, the same word is translated <em>all members suffer  with it. </em> “And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer  with it (<em>sumpathes</em>); or one member be honoured, all the members  rejoice with it.”</p>
<p>Sympathy or  compassion is when someone is hurting, and we hurt with them.   I want you to understand with this exhortation of how to have compassion  one of another, which is extremely important because usually when there  is stress in a relationship or stress in your life, one of the first  things to go is your compassion, because you don’t <em>feel like</em> being nice.  You don’t <em>feel like</em> being kind.  You  don’t <em>feel like</em> being gentle.  You don’t <em>feel like</em> being sacrificial.  But you must remember, compassion is not a  feeling!  It is imperative that you and I learn how to have compassion  when we are under stress in our relationships.</p>
<p>Over the next  several Mondays, we are going to discuss this topic of compassion, its  qualities, and how we can show compassion to those around us.   First of all, I want you to notice that <strong>compassion is measurable</strong>.   In Psalm 78, the Bible says, <em>“God is full of compassion.”</em> That is a measurement.  If you and I are going to be like God,  you and I are going to have to be filled with compassion.  The  Bible says concerning Jesus, that He was <em>“touched with the feelings  of our infirmities.”</em> That means that He has compassion for  us.  You wonder, “Does anybody care?”  Well my friend, you  can be sure of this:  Jesus cares for you.  That’s why the  Bible says, <em>“Casting all your care upon Him for He careth for you</em>.”   He has constant fullness of compassion for you and me.  Remember,  no one has more stress on His shoulders than Jesus.  We sing that  little song, “He’s got the whole world in His hands,” but He’s  got more than that!  He’s got it all in His hands; and yet, He  has the time to have compassion on us.  Our Lord is <em>full of  compassion</em>.  In fact, Psalm 86:15; 111:4; 112:4; and 145:8  all tell us of that very fact.</p>
<p>You may be  full of compassion.  If you are there, that is wonderful!  What  a blessing!  However, you may be only half-full of compassion;  and yet, some of you may have only the fumes.  Your “compassion  tank” may be on “E” and the lights are blinking, and you are barely  sputtering along.  How does this happen?  The reality is that  our circumstances and stresses of life can diminish our compassion and  bring us to a place where we are numb to people’s pain.  Now,  let me tell you, this is not a good way to live.  However, it is  highly possible to do the right thing and not have any feeling in it  at all.  It is done all the time.  People pretend to care,  when really there is no genuine care at all.  But this I know,  you don’t have to get too close to a skunk before you can smell it!   It is despicable when people pretend like they care when they really  do not. Compassion is a measurable emotion.  How does your compassion  measure up right now?</p>
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		<title>Methamphetamine By: Dr. George Crabb</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Matt was a young man of seventeen whom I first meet in my medical clinic in 1996. His mother brought him to me to address his drug use. Matt had been smoking, drinking, and sniffing glue since junior high. He then graduated to marijuana and a “little” cocaine in his early high school years.  He [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Matt was a young man of seventeen whom I first meet in my medical clinic in 1996. His mother brought him to me to address his drug use. Matt had been smoking, drinking, and sniffing glue since junior high. He then graduated to marijuana and a “little” cocaine in his early high school years.  He had recently dropped out of school because he could no longer “make the grade.” His girlfriend had turned him on to crystal methamphetamine (ice) within the past two months. The change in his behavior alarmed his mother and resulted in a visit to my office.</p>
<p>Matt told me that after using ice, he was not the same. He thought that his brain had been damaged and wondered if I had any medicine to “fix it.” He promised me he would never use it again, but he did. In fact, he started to use it more and more until he lost his job, his girlfriend, and his mother threw him out of the house.</p>
<p>I saw him one other time soon after these events transpired. Something was dramatically different. His short term memory was gone. He would forget what he was talking about in mid-sentence. But, what concerned me the most was this penetrating paranoia that permeated his being. He was hyper-vigilant, scanning the waiting room, as he paced the room like a caged animal. He kept mentioning to me that “people” were out to get him.</p>
<p>I called his mother, and together we made every attempt to help Matt. Unfortunately, to no avail. Approximately three weeks later, his mother called me and informed me that Matt had found a gun and killed himself at age of eighteen.</p>
<p>This is a tragic story, but not an isolated one. Matt was a real person who learned the devastating consequences of ice use. This is a drug that is highly addictive and highly destructive. It is sweeping across our nation and will be knocking at the door of your RU chapter or church if it hasn’t already. Let me describe this drug they call, “Ice.”</p>
<p>“Ice” is ‘crystalline methamphetamine hydrochloride,’ and can be smoked or injected intravenously, whereas plain methamphetamine powder is snorted or taken orally. The ice form of the drug gives a more intense high, or “rush,” than the powder form of the drug. It is many times more addictive than the powder form. The powder form is frequently cut or diluted with other harmful substances, but ice crystals are usually pure drug, which is much more potent and destructive. The high is longer lasting than either cocaine or meth powder. Ice is by far the most addictive substance known to man. Almost nobody, like Matt, tries ice just once.</p>
<p>The high Matt and others received from ice gives them a sense of energy and alertness, competence and intelligence, power and control. Loss of appetite, hyperactivity, and endurance are common as well. Matt would go days without feeling tired or needing to sleep or eat. The euphoria is associated with delusions of power and invincibility.</p>
<p>The long-term consequences of ice or methamphetamine abuse include memory loss, hallucinations, delusions, panic, and rage. The later stages of addiction are characterized by a form of dementia – mothers abandon their babies, teenagers shoot their parents, families are destroyed, and communities are crippled. Addicts are unable to hold a job or care for their families; they are consumed with their drug use and cannot do anything else.</p>
<p>The real harm with ice is not only its highly addictive potential but its neuro-toxicity (neuro – brain, toxicity – damaging.) Ice is much more toxic to brain cells than cocaine. As devastating as the crack cocaine problem has been, ice promises to be much worse. Ice addicts sustain significant brain damage. Matt suffered from ‘methamphetamine psychosis’ with severe paranoia. He felt as if the whole world was “out to get him.”  Homicide, trauma, and suicide (as was the case with Matt) are the most common causes of death for ice addicts.  Within five years, 90% of addicts are either brain-damaged, dead, or in prison.</p>
<p>Ice is burning down homes (meth labs), destroying families, polluting the environment, and corrupting our neighborhoods. Ice is destroying our workforce and flooding our prisons, hospitals, and rehab centers with brain-damaged people. It is infiltrating our schools and churches and killing our young people. It is an epidemic that will touch millions.</p>
<p>We must kneel before our God and ask for His grace to help those in need, then stand and demonstrate the compassion of Christ to them. There is no answer to the ice epidemic outside of Jesus. The medical field can offer assistance in dealing with the complications caused by the damage done to the physical body (and this can be extensive); but the Answer is the TRUTH. We must reach out and freely offer to them the “Cure” which is Christ. The addict needs to exchange the methamphetamine for the Messiah!</p>
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		<title>A Passionate Prayer for Revival</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 09:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Charles Haddon Spurgeon called the 85th Psalm “the prayer of a patriot for his afflicted country.” He expressed his belief that David penned this national hymn when the land was oppressed by the Philistines. When we come to the 85th Psalm, we are reading a passionate prayer for revival. In fact, if you will notice, [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Charles  Haddon Spurgeon called the 85th Psalm “the prayer of a patriot for  his afflicted country.” He expressed his belief that David penned  this national hymn when the land was oppressed by the Philistines. When  we come to the 85th Psalm, we are reading a passionate prayer for revival.  In fact, if you will notice, the first seven verses are a prayer that  God has inspired, recorded, and kept for us that we might gain a better  understanding of how revival comes to an individual and to a nation.   You cannot lose your salvation, but you can lose the joy of your salvation.  You can lose the thrill of what it means to belong to Christ and to  live for Him and love Him. That is the reality of life…and that is  when we need a revival.</p>
<p>David  begins his prayer with a look back at history and a remembrance of how  God favored Israel with revival in times past. Notice verse one, <em> “Lord, thou hast been favourable unto thy land: thou hast brought  back the captivity of Jacob.”</em> The word <em>revive</em> means “to  make alive again.”  It is bringing life back to that which is dead  or dying.  When the Psalmist looked back on the days of revival,  he saw a time of blessing, prosperity, and the favor of God.  When  the children of Israel were in captivity because of sin, God brought  them to a renewed freedom.</p>
<p>In  verses two and three, we see how revival restores our relationship with  God.  “<em>Thou hast forgiven the iniquity of thy people, thou  hast covered all their sin. Selah.   Thou hast taken away  all thy wrath: thou hast turned thyself from the fierceness of thine  anger.” </em>I have no doubt that God is angry with us as a nation  today.  <strong>And, it is not “them”  out there that is the problem; we are.  I am talking about God’s  people.</strong> There is no question that we are in desperate need of an  old-fashioned, Holy Ghost, God-sent revival.  It is not the iniquity  of the world that kindles God’s wrath, but the iniquity tolerated,  overlooked, and even enjoyed by His own people.  When revival occurs,  there will be remarkable forgiveness of sin and a turning away of God’s  wrath.  Oh, how we need that today!</p>
<p>Look at the plea for revival David voices in verse 4, <em>“Turn us,  O God of our salvation, and cause thine anger toward us to cease.”</em> We do not hear much praying like this today.  Most of our prayers  are short and simple (and not very sweet).   This is an earnest,  fervent, passionate prayer from a man who means business with God.   Prayers that do not bring tears to our eyes or a quivering to our lips  or an emotion that torments the spirit do not produce revival.   Until we are serious about our need for revival, it is unlikely that  we will ever experience revival.  We cannot expect revival until  we reach the end of ourselves and recognize that is only through God  that we can have life again.</p>
<p>What  happens when a real revival comes?  The answer is found in verse  six.  <em>“Wilt thou not revive us again: that thy people may  rejoice in thee?” </em> Revival always brings a renewed joy to our  relationship with God.   A person who experiences revival  will rejoice in the Lord regardless of what else is going on in his  life. You may be in times of great stress, difficulty, and challenge.    But, when revival takes place, God&#8217;s people rejoice; not necessarily  in what is happening in their lives, but in what is happening in their  relationship with God Himself. It is a rejoicing that is not born out  of an appreciation for what God is doing for us, but of an appreciation  for Who God is!</p>
<p>David  concludes his prayer for revival in verse seven and then transitions  to focus on what happens in the heart and life of a person who is looking  for revival.  Psalm 85:7&amp;8 says, <em>“Show us thy mercy O  Lord and grant us thy salvation.  I will hear what God the Lord  will speak: for he will speak peace unto his people, and to his saints:  but let them not turn again to folly.” </em> What signs can we look for to indicate revival is coming?  The  first thing David mentions is that God&#8217;s people will be in tune with  God&#8217;s voice.  God can speak to you, and when He does, you do not  want to miss it.  I have noticed in my own life, that when God  is about to do something significant, His voice will become a priority  to me.   My friend, our country needs revival.  Our churches  need revival. Individually, we need revival!! Did you hear His voice <em> today</em>?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[II Kings 5: 1-14 Whatever is not of faith is sin; and faith is integrally linked to recognition of, and conformity to, the Word of Truth. Are we walking by faith, allowing the Word to lighten each step of our pilgrim pathway; or by sight, trusting the frailty of the flesh and the foolishness of [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>II Kings 5:  1-14</p>
<p>Whatever is  not of faith is sin; and faith is integrally linked to recognition of,  and conformity to, the Word of Truth. Are we walking by faith, allowing  the Word to lighten each step of our pilgrim pathway; or by sight,  trusting  the frailty of the flesh and the foolishness of self? Are we seeking  to please ourselves or our Lord? Elisha and Gehazi illustrate these  two different options left to every servant of God. Today, we look at  Elisha; and in two weeks, we will look at Gehazi.</p>
<p>He was not  well known or highly regarded by the dignitaries (vv. 5-6), but  certainly  was known as God’s man by a “little maid” (vv. 2-3). A faithful  servant of the Lord today is not out to please men or impress the  religious  masses; his desired recognition is among those who are themselves  seeking  to walk according to Truth &#8211; God&#8217;s faithful remnant.</p>
<p>God&#8217;s power  and glory (v. 8), not Naaman’s honor or self-aggrandizement (vv9-12),  was Elisha’s concern. He wanted all to know that there was, in fact,  a God in Israel; and that there was still a prophet of God who stood  uncompromisingly as his servant. Elisha’s desire was to honor his  Lord, not bring attention to self by trying to dazzle Naaman and his  cohorts with a sensationalized or colorful ministry. Unpretentious,  humble service is the crowning mark of the selfless servant.</p>
<p>Elisha was  also careful as to how his ministry was perceived by others; he refused  their gifts (vv. 15-16). A clear testimony, honoring to God and honest  before men, was far more important than personal gain. Nor did he seek  self-vindication when he was misrepresented by Gehazi before Naaman  (v. 22). God&#8217;s judgment, not his own wrath, was pronounced by Elisha.  God will set things straight and administer justice in the end (vv.  25-27). Until God finally sets things straight, we are to obey our  Master&#8217;s  commandments whether the immediate consequences might be favorable or  not.</p>
<p>Our motivation  for ministry must be pure and selfless, too. We must constantly guard  against the temptation to trim the message or let down the Biblical  parameters for faithful ministry in an effort to enhance our image or  broaden our fellowship. God&#8217;s glory is the issue here, not our  popularity.  If we are identified with Truth in every way possible, then we will  necessarily be out of step with this current evil age. God is seeking  workers today who are willing to bear his reproach. Let’s all be  selfless  servants!</p>
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		<title>Enablement – Help that Hurts</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[“And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him. And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father&#8217;s have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger!” (Luke 15:16-17) Enablement defined is “any approach [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>“And he would fain have filled his  belly with the husks that the  swine did eat: and no man gave unto  him. And when he came to  himself, he said, How many hired servants  of my father&#8217;s have bread  enough and to spare, and I perish with  hunger!”</p>
<p>(Luke 15:16-17)</p>
<p>Enablement defined is “<em>any approach  that provides means or  opportunity</em>.” A leading question among  workers dealing with  addicted people is, “How do I know the difference  between enabling them  and showing them love?” In the <a href="http://store.reformu.com/how-to-minister-to-the-addicted-p264.aspx">CD (available  through Reformers   Unanimous) entitled, “How to Minister to the  Addicted”</a>,  I discuss   three different models or philosophies in dealing with those  who are  addicted.</p>
<p>One of those models is the “impaired  model of addictions.”  It deals  with people who are looking at  the actions and reactions of an  addicted individual and judging that  person based on what they see.   This model is prevalent in most  churches today. They believe that it is  just a lack of character that  keeps this addicted individual bound and  they just need to repent and  exercise will power to stop their  addiction.  However, but other  times they will feel sorry for them and  will continue to enable  them-giving  them enablement-a help that  hurts! In this model of addiction,  it is believed that the only  treatment is to change the addict’s  behavior  through  shame, guilt,  rejection, or by enabling them &#8211; which  results in a deeper shame-based  identity and stronger addiction.</p>
<p>To make this topic of “enablement” clearer, I want to list some  examples to help you.  Many Christians  want to help, out of a good  heart and bowels of compassion, but that  compassion should not  be based on “<em>soulical</em>” needs  of those we are trying to help, but  rather <em>spiritual needs</em>. You  see, you cannot help someone UNTIL  they, just like the prodigal son  mentioned in the verse above, come  to the end of themselves.  It does not mean that we do not help  them, but it does mean that we  do not enable them. In the years of  watching some of our leaders here  in Rockford minister to people that  would have continued their habit;  I want to present some situations in  which you can show love without  enabling:</p>
<ol type="1">
<li>If a student asks for food    money -
<ol type="a">
<li>One who would enable them would give them  money&#8211;quickly</li>
<li>One who would love them could meet them at  Wal-Mart and purchase the  items the student  needs,  while spending time with them and developing  them in spiritual ways.</li>
</ol>
</li>
<li>If a student needs gas for his/her vehicle -
<ol type="a">
<li>Someone who would enable them would give them money.  (Don’t ever  give money! When a drug  addict gets money they buy drugs!)</li>
<li>Someone  who would love them would take them to the gas station and  put gas in their car for  them, also spending time with them.</li>
</ol>
</li>
<li>If a student’s car gets impounded for various reasons -
<ol type="a">
<li>A person who enables them will get their car out of the  car impound  without doing anything to help change their behavior.</li>
<li>A person  who would love them may look for other options (bus,  bicycle, carpool,) without  getting the car out of the car impound, to  reveal to them that the  consequences for our sin are inevitable,  incalculable, and up to God. (Principle #9) We do not want to get in the  way of what God is trying to do.</li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<p>The Bible is clear that man looks on  the outward appearance but God  looks on the heart. The real need of  an individual is not to change  their circumstances on the outside, but  to be used of God to change  their heart. The very thing that needs to  be changed, their heart, is  often used to manipulate and control all  circumstances to their  advantage. Once someone in leadership clearly  sees this pattern,  through the eyes of God’s love, they will realize  (like the prodigal  son’s father) that there was a time to give his  son his inheritance  with no strings attached. This was necessary for  the son to get him in  the position where no man was willing  to give  to him again to  help him continue his behavior, his life style,  and his heart’s  appetites and desires. At Reformers Unanimous, we  know that God will  put a new heart in every believer, and that the power   of the Gospel is  able to transform anyone’s life &#8211; if they are willing  to turn.  In  summary, that for which an addict may be asking is  not really what they  need; and what you would like to do for them may  not be what He would  like to do in them. One thing is for sure, God  has bestowed upon us His  love, given us His Spirit, and the fruit of  that Spirit is love, and  may God help every one of us to demonstrate  that I Corinthians 13 love  in a way that would help people without  hurting  them.</p>
<p>Current Housing Needs</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Don’t ask-Tell!</span></p>
<p>Understanding Nehemiah’s view in  sharing his needs to people&#8230;</p>
<p>“We don’t ask man for money, we  ask God-He owns it anyway! -Steven  Curington</p>
<p>Our goals have grown away from asking  people to help us with this  project and that project.  Our need  been met so many times simply  because we asked God to meet then and  shortly thereafter someone  requested information on our needs and then  just like that, the needs  were met.</p>
<p>So please pray over our needs in your spare time&#8230;at least once!   How  about now? There are just a few&#8230;.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Womens Home: </span></p>
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<li>Twelve girls to fill beds  in the new home.  Reduced  tuition for  them if needed and accepted.</li>
<li>A 15-passenger van, used but nice,  for the Joy Belle’s summer tour.</li>
<li>A 30 or more shuttle bus to  transport ladies to work, church, and  back.</li>
<li>An “In Memory” or “In Honor” donor for the south wing  rooms.</li>
<li>A “Window of Opportunity” for individual donors to  purchase a window  for the girl’s bedrooms.Current windows are worn and will not last  until or through winter.</li>
<li>The commercial kitchen will remain  closed until we can fill it with  used, but nice, commercial kitchen appliances and equipment. One need at  a time is our goal.  Though the home opens this week, the cafeteria  will remain shuttered till God meets that need.</li>
</ul>
<p>Men’s Home:</p>
<ul type="DISC">
<li>Nine men to fill beds in the existing home. There is  some tuition  money available through the Timothy Fund to help a few.</li>
<li>Tuition  dollars “in memory” or “in honor” of someone you love to  help men and women attend our program who could not otherwise afford it.</li>
</ul>
<p>National Ministry:</p>
<ul type="DISC">
<li>We need one man to fill a role of Marketing/Public  Relations and  Communications.  This interested candidate must be gain his Pastor’s  permission before  sending his resume and would require his move to  Rockford preferably by June 15.</li>
<li>We also are need of a strong  Operations Director.  Someone who  understands people movement,    policy informant personal management and  problem solvement.  This    person works for me and oversees 75 staff,  students and volunteers. Both positions report directly to Bro.  Curington.</li>
<li>We need talented graphic designers to assist our  workload in our  creative department.  This person does NOT need to relocate to Rockford,  but will work  independent of headquarters on plan preparation.  Chosen  candidate will work for Will Fowler.</li>
</ul>
<p>National   Conference of Workshops:  The Way is Agape!</p>
<p>To say that I am excited about this  year’s conference is an  understatement would be unparalleled in our  ministry.  My excitement  has been replaced with personal refinement.   I am learning so much  about our topic of love and its alternative forms  offered by  man-Phileo; and what is offered by the enemy-Eros. I cannot wait to  teach you what I have learned and the lessons I have  spurned in an  effort to become addicted to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">aggressive striving</span> in the work of  my ministry.  This aggressive striving led to an  addiction to  affirmation of those whom I strived to serve, whether  students  or  pastors.  This addiction led to be seek the affirmation and  praise of  man.  This reciprocal cycle caused me to abandon what  is common among  family-time and energy; for that which was being blessed   by my  calling-my ministry.  I would tell my family I loved them,  but when the  day was done and I had only two weary hours left before  their bedtime,  they could sense something wasn’t right.  Disappointment  and regret,  rather than appreciation and affirmation set in and I was  doomed.  Not  making my family happy, with my people, staff and  students struggling  with many wants demanding they be met, they often  voiced their great  displeasure with me.  With vendors and customers  waiting for money or  product that we could not deliver and with churches dropping support  regularly, I became a man not only unappreciated, I  became a man most  miserable whom people sensed the only way to help me was to request of  me that which would only make me more miserable!</p>
<p>It is at this time I refined our topic  to “<em>The Way is Agape:   Learning to  Live for the Audience of One!”</em> As we teach, train, and  coach  your workers to this all important intimacy with the Father, we  must  understand how important that it be to us.  It must be our all   sufficiency.  It must give us humility, transparency, sensibility  and  accountability.  And then, the way others feel for you or about  you  will change.  Not because they will cease to love you, but  rather love  you more because you are not expressing to them the Father’s love which  has been bestowed upon you.</p>
<p>We surely hope your church and chapter can attend this year’s event.   Mark your calendars &#8211; Monday,   September 27<sup>th</sup> through  Thursday, September 30. The Formal Banquet will be the  evening  of the 29<sup>th</sup>.  You won’t want to miss this yearly   awe-inspiring  highlight.</p>
<p>RIP   &#8211; Reformers  Institutional Program</p>
<p>Here is a testimony from an  incarcerated  individual participating  in the program:</p>
<p><em>“I love RU. My parole officer  introduced me to the program. It is  much better than A.A. I was  saved back when I was 20 years old and in  the U.S.M.C at Camp Pendleton,   CA, but didn’t stay with the Lord. I  was baptized in Oceanside, CA.  I always felt a pull to God but didn’t  know how to go to Him. I was  brought up with a God who only punished,  and I wasn’t taught about  God’s loving side. I spent many years in  prison for the crimes I  committed.  Being in Reformers has changed my  life for the better. My family and  friends (the few I have left) have  seen a change in me. The nicest thing   anyone has ever done for me,  next to God’s gift of Jesus’  sacrifice and the Holy Spirit, was  introduce me to R.U. My life will </em> <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">never</span></em><em> be  the same.”</em></p>
<ul>- Jerry B. in New Jersey</ul>
<p><em><a href="../category/recovery/testimonies">(Click here to read  other testimonies&#8230;)</a></em></p>
<p>It is exciting to see the continual  growth of the <a href="http://store.reformu.com/institutional-program-c43.aspx" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Reformers   Institutional Program</span></a> (RIP)   here and abroad. Testimonies like  the one above come into our offices  every single day. It is even more  exciting to hear of those men that  have been released from  incarceration that have joined both the Friday  night RU programs and  local churches across this country. There is an  exciting parallel going  on between ministering to those that are  incarcerated  while at the  same time ministering to their family members in the  community  through  the <a href="http://www.reformu.com/resources/new-to-ru/chapter-locator.html">local RU Chapter</a>. We have discovered  that, because of their   stronger relationship with God, the reunion of the incarcerated with   their loved ones is much sweeter, and the end result is families joining    local churches all across America. If you are interested in starting   a RIP program in your community please contact our offices at   815-986-0460,  ext 150, or email us at <a href="mailto:rip@reformu.com" target="_blank">rip@reformu.com</a>.</p>
<p><em>Note to current  RIP Programs:</em></p>
<p>Recently we were made aware that the  bookmark awards for the RIP  program are not able to go into a large  majority of the jails and  prisons, therefore we have discontinued these  items and made  certificates for those challenges. We have limited  supplies  of those  bookmarks still available, and if your program allows you to  use them  you may purchase them through the sales manager, Barry  Curington, at <a href="mailto:sales@reformu.com" target="_blank">sales@reformu.com</a>.</p>
<p>Rockford  Training  Days</p>
<p>The increased number of chapters this  year encourages us. We have  started nearly 50 chapters since January  1<sup>st</sup>, using our new  model of director training. Recently,  we sent an email to pastors and  directors of current RU chapters,  encouraging  them to attend one of  these conferences here in Rockford to get  retraining  and  re-certification in operating an <a href="http://www.reformu.com/">RU Program</a>. We have been surprised  by  the numbers of leaders, helpers, and even students that have attended    these classes on overcoming stubborn habits and effectively helping   others in your community. We invite you to learn more about these free   opportunities of training by going to <a href="http://register.reformu.com/" target="_blank">http://register.reformu.com/</a>.    Please note that this training would not be superior to that of our   National Conference, but it would be a great addition to anyone or any   chapter that is currently struggling.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ruhomes.org/">RU  Schools of  Discipleship</a></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Looking back, I never would  have seen it coming, and if you  would have told me that my first hit  of marijuana would have lead me to  becoming a heroin addict, I wouldn&#8217;t  have believed you. Because of my  rebellion to God, I started to  experiment  with drugs and alcohol when I  was 14 years old. By the time I was 19,  I had already been to jail on  numerous occasions. The last time I was  arrested there was no hope of a  release anytime soon. That&#8217;s where I  heard about the Reformers  Unanimous program. I started to attend the  program, and gave my heart  and my life back to God. Then I got court  ordered to the <a href="http://www.ruhomes.org/">Men&#8217;s  School  of Discipleship in Rockford, Illinois.</a> There,  I learned  what it really  meant to walk with God, and what it meant to  study the Bible. Through  the <a href="http://store.reformu.com/its-personal-daily-journal-classic-size-p3.aspx">It&#8217;s Personal Daily Journal</a>,  and the <a href="http://store.reformu.com/strongholds-discipleship-course-p575.aspx">Strongholds   Study Course</a>, I   learned what it meant to be discipled and worship God.  The  accountability taught me about the structure and discipline I never  had  as a fatherless teenager. The daily counseling with the Stewad,  Jeff  R., got me through most of the program. He was always turning my  heart  towards God. The constant accountability also helped me to learn  that  freedom is found in boundaries. Today, I have the wonderful  privilege   and opportunity of not only studying for the work of the ministry in   Bible College, but also working full-time in ministry underneath my   pastor. I thank God almost everyday for the RIP Program that introduced   me to Reformers Unanimous, as well as the <a href="http://www.ruhomes.org/">School  of Discipleship </a>for   changing my life.&#8221;</em></p>
<ul>- Michie D. in Illinois</ul>
<p><a href="../category/recovery/testimonies">(click here to read  more testimonies&#8230;)</a></p>
<p>There are people like Michie all across America who want help and are  searching for freedom, but they cannot  do it on their own. They need  the extra accountability of an in-patient  program. They can follow the  same path to freedom and success. If you  know of someone who could  benefit from our <a href="http://www.ruhomes.org/">8 to 10 month Schools of  Discipleship</a>, please email us  at <a href="mailto:weneedu@reformu.com" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">weneedu@reformu.com</span></a> or call us at (815) 986-0460 ext 115.  We  love you&#8230;at RU!</p>
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		<title>Worshipping God in the Beauty of Holiness</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Psalm 96: 1-13 “O worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness…” This exhortation in verse nine is familiar to most believers. Sadly, it is not always practiced. As we study this Psalm, it would be well to ask ourselves if we are worshiping the Lord in the beauty of holiness, in our hearts, in [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Psalm 96: 1-13<br />
“O worship the Lord in the  beauty of holiness…” This exhortation in verse nine is familiar  to most believers. Sadly, it is not always practiced. As we study this  Psalm, it would be well to ask ourselves if we are worshiping the Lord  in the beauty of holiness, in our hearts, in our homes, and in our  churches.</p>
<p>It is a very sad fact to  contemplate,  but most Christians are well aware that much of what goes on in the  name of worshiping the Lord today is not in the beauty of holiness,  but in the ugliness of unholiness. It is easy to blame someone else  for this sad situation, but what fills your heart and mind when you  gather with fellow believers to worship the Lord?</p>
<p>Many churches are being torn  apart today because so many people come to church just to criticize  the preacher or to find fault with others in the church. Even for one  hour many believers seem unable to bring their own lives fully into  subjection to the Lord and His Word so that a worship service can be  truly in the beauty of holiness &#8211; in an attitude of reverence &#8211; and  with a spirit of forgiveness and understanding in connection with the  needs and problems of others.</p>
<p>How will we be able to proclaim   the true gospel message to the heathen, and remind him of his righteous  judgment (v. 10) if we are not worshiping Him in the beauty of holiness  ourselves? Note also verse 13 where God says that He shall judge the  world with righteousness, and the people with His truth. Those who would   sacrifice truth on the altar of expediency are denying God&#8217;s righteous  judgment, and ignoring His will.</p>
<p>Only those who worship the  Lord in the beauty of holiness can be faithful witnesses for Jesus  Christ.  Only those who worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness can sing unto  the Lord a new song (v. 1). If we would give the Lord the glory due  His name, and bring an offering that would please Him, then we must  not follow those in our day who are willing to tolerate error. We cannot   give the excuse that unholiness in the church and in the proclamation  of the Gospel are justified in an attempt to fulfill the Great  Commission.</p>
<p>It is difficult to obey the  word of the Lord when the majority of the Christians are disobeying  it. But let us not forget that the results of disobedience are always  disastrous. Let us desire to worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness!</p>
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<div><span><span>Have a wonderful day IN the Lord!</span></span></div>
<p><span><strong>Dr. George Crabb D.O</strong>.</span><span><br />
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		<title>Don&#8217;t be afraid to fail</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 09:50:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The word fail means &#8220;to fall short of success or achievement in something expected, attempted, desired, or approved.&#8221; (Webster Dictionary, 1828) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 1John 1:8 Since everyone fails, we shouldn&#8217;t be afraid to fail. As a matter of fact, [...]


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<p>The word <em>fail </em>means &#8220;to fall short of success or achievement  in something expected, attempted, desired, or approved.&#8221; (Webster  Dictionary, 1828)</p>
<p>If we say that we have no sin,  we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 1John 1:8</p>
<p>Since everyone fails, we  shouldn&#8217;t  be afraid to fail. As a matter of fact, we should realize we&#8217;ll make  mistakes and seek to learn from them, rather than cowering from the  fear of failure.  The fear of failure is the reason many people  fail. Some don&#8217;t try at all, and some only halfheartedly try, because  they&#8217;re afraid to fail. The thinking is, “If I don&#8217;t try, I won&#8217;t  fail; therefore, I&#8217;ll succeed.”</p>
<p>Dr. R.B. Ouellette preached  a sermon at our 2008 conference that really spoke to my heart in this  area.  He read a poem (see conclusion of this blog for copy of  poem) that I have read dozens of times in moments of discouragement.   So often we do not see desired results and we feel that it is a sign  from God that we need to stop, give in, or go another direction.   I have known people to quit the ministry, quit a program, quit school,  quit a diet, etc, just because they didn’t yet see what they were  hoping to see.  They became discouraged, and as a result, quit  the very thing that God wanted them to do.  A preacher once told  me to make a list of things that inspire me.  I followed his advice  and made such a list. Some of the things on that list are particular  Bible verses, Christian songs, poems, sermons, illustrations of God’s  provision.  David called this encouragement.</p>
<p><em> 1Samuel 30:6,  “And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning  him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his  sons and for his daughters<span style="text-decoration: underline;">: but David encouraged himself in the LORD  his God</span>.” </em></p>
<p>This word <em> encouraged</em> means <em>to fasten upon</em>.  I want to fasten my heart  and mind on those things that cause me to connect to Him.  You may feel  like you have tried for a long time, but I want to encourage you to  try again.  You may have prayed a certain prayer and have not seen any  success come from that prayer; I encourage you to pray again.  You may  have tried to stop smoking, or drinking, or listening to music that  does not glorify God, just because you did not succeed, does not mean  you should not seek freedom once again.  I encourage you to endeavor  again.  I am not asking you to roll your sleeves up and work, I  am asking you to go back to the work that God is doing in you to conform   you to the image of His dear Son.</p>
<p>It is those  who keep on going again and again who see success.  Though success may  seem to have forsaken you in some area of your life, I hope you will  resist the fear of failure and rest in His work He is doing in you and  through you.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Go Back To Work</span></strong></p>
<p>When your converts break your  heart</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>When your chapter falls apart</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>When RU is just no fun</p>
<p>And no challenges are done</p>
<p>And away you&#8217;d like to run</p>
<p>Go Back to work</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re student&#8217;s a crook</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>When your counsel group&#8217;s  unkind</p>
<p>And your disciples rob you  blind</p>
<p>And no peace or joy you find</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>When your church just doesn&#8217;t  care</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>And no one your load will share</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>The burdens large have grown</p>
<p>And no love or grace you&#8217;re  shown</p>
<p>And you think you&#8217;re all alone</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>Each day brings more bad news</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>When your spirit seems to break</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>When you stumble neath your  cross</p>
<p>And your gain is turned to  loss</p>
<p>And you&#8217;d like to say no mas</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>Souls are perishing each hour</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>God can save them</p>
<p>By His power</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>Faithful servants in their  place still are strengthened by His grace</p>
<p>And by faith we run the race</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>Harvest fields we still can  reap</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>God&#8217;s commission we must keep</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>Labor is our calling now</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>Till all knees before Him bow</p>
<p>Go back to work</p>
<p>Rest comes on the other side</p>
<p>When we cross the swelling  tide</p>
<p>Till in heaven we abide</p>
<p>Go back to work!</p>
<p>Dr. R.B Ouellette<br />
Pastor of First Baptist  Church, Bridgeport, Michigan</p>
<p><span>Have a wonderful day IN the Lord!</span><br />
<span><span><strong>Benjamin  R. Burks</strong> </span></span><span><span><span><a href="http://www.facebook.com/brburks"><img title="Find me on Facebook" src="http://img.constantcontact.com/ui/images1/btn_fbk_100.png" border="0" alt="Find me on Facebook" /></a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>Kick the Habit!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 09:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good Morning! We are 138 days into 2010&#8230;how are you doing with those New Year’s resolutions?  One of the most popular resolutions is the promise to stop smoking. However, it is also the resolution that usually doesn&#8217;t last past January.  Why is it so hard to stop smoking? Tobacco, with its drug nicotine, is probably [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Good Morning! We are 138 days into   2010&#8230;how  are you doing with those New Year’s resolutions?  One of the  most popular resolutions is the promise to stop smoking. However, it  is also the resolution that usually doesn&#8217;t last past January.  Why is  it so hard to stop smoking?</p>
<p>Tobacco, with its drug nicotine, is probably the most widely abused  chemical substance in the world. It is one of the most difficult  addictions  to conquer. It is difficult to conquer because there is not only a  strong  physical addiction to the nicotine which basically touches every part  of the body but there is a significant psychological addiction to the  activities associated with smoking. I have had some patients who  struggled  more with the psychological addiction than the physical, but both can  be a formidable foe. Tobacco is dangerous and deadly and needs to be  taken   seriously.</p>
<p>Cigarettes are designed to addict. They are chemically engineered to  deliver nicotine to your brain. Along with the nicotine there are  numerous  other dangerous substances in the cigarette smoke which cause  devastating  health issues. Some of these substances are acetone, carbon monoxide,  hydrogen cyanide and formaldehyde. These chemicals are added to the  tobacco which makes the cigarette even more deadly. These added  chemicals  are given the general name &#8220;tar&#8221; and include everything in  a cigarette but nicotine and water. The cigarette is manufactured with  a deadly delivery system, designed to efficiently send high doses of  nicotine to the brain. As you inhale the cigarette smoke, the tar  infiltrates  your lungs, and the nicotine &#8220;rides the tar&#8221; into the blood  stream. As the cigarette smoke is inhaled there are over four thousand  compounds present in that smoke to make that &#8220;rush&#8221; of nicotine  faster and more enjoyable. Out of the over four thousand compounds  present  in cigarette smoke, at least sixty of them are known to be carcinogens  (cancer-forming chemicals).</p>
<p>Tobacco is quite insidious with its consequences. Unlike cocaine,  heroin,  or other dangerous drugs, tobacco&#8217;s nicotine and poison can go  undetected  for many years. Tobacco can gradually create addiction to nicotine and  gradually kill. Tobacco is legal and accessible, but it is one of the  leading causes of death throughout the world, causing almost half a  million deaths in the United States annually.</p>
<p>As people smoke cigarettes  they are not  only exposing themselves to the dangers of tobacco but also their loved  ones and friends they smoke around. Second-hand smoke was once  considered  harmless but we now know better. Second-hand smoke is poisonous and  it kills. It is estimated that exposure to second-hand smoke causes  an estimated three thousand lung cancer deaths each year among  non-smoking  American adults.</p>
<p>Nicotine withdrawal is a very unpleasant process to go through. For  you see, when you take nicotine away, your body craves it, and makes  you feel like you need more nicotine or you will die or get sick. Your  body will rebel with all kinds of symptoms such as: headaches, anxiety,  depression, fatigue, hunger, trouble sleeping, thirst, decreased  attention  span, agitation, irritability, anger, and frustration amongst many  others.  The above symptoms can occur in just a few short hours after your last  cigarette. They will be at their worst two to three days later and can  last for weeks. It is not only a physical withdrawal from nicotine that  a smoker goes through. In quitting tobacco, there are physiological  and emotional changes that occur. For you see, smokers just don&#8217;t depend   on nicotine physically. They depend on it behaviorally and  psychologically.  Smoking is what they do when they get together with friends. And, in  fact, it is a major means by which they blow off steam when they are  feeling tense. It is what they do while drinking their morning coffee  or relaxing after dinner. That is why breaking the bondage of nicotine  addiction can be difficult and, in fact, be harder to quit in some  instances  than heroin or cocaine. A patient of mine that was involved in  polysubstance  abuse (including tobacco) stated to me, &#8220;It (tobacco) was the hardest  to quit, and it was the last to leave.&#8221; He went on to say, &#8220;The  thoughts of tobacco use still haunt me.&#8221; But, breaking the bondage  to your nicotine addiction is of vital importance for you and those  around you. Breaking this bondage is well worth the effort.</p>
<p>So, we see the significance of breaking the bondage to nicotine/tobacco  addiction. It is so important from the physical side as well as the  mental side, but also, and even more importantly, from the spiritual  side. What you need to do instead of picking up your cigarette with  your morning coffee, pick up your Bible and read it. Instead of lighting   up a cigarette on your drive home, put in a preaching CD or a <a href="http://store.reformu.com/the-joy-belles---voice-of-the-shepherd-cd-p622.aspx">Joy Belle  music CD</a>. Instead  of a cigarette after dinner, take a walk and meditate  on the things of God.</p>
<p>Friend, regardless of where you may be in your struggle with nicotine  addiction, the good news is that there is life after cigarettes. Please  trade in your cigarettes for Christ Jesus and your nicotine for the  name above all names &#8211; Jesus. Let Him, the Truth, make you  free&#8230;finally.</p>
<p>If you failed to keep your New Year’s resolution, don’t wait until  January 1, 2011 to try again!  You can start today!  Give  God the glory for what He can do in you!  I Corinthians 6:19-20  tells us, &#8220;What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the  Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your  own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body,   and in your spirit, which are God&#8217;s.&#8221;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[See that ye refuse not him that speaketh.  For if they escaped not who refused him that spake on earth, much more shall not we escape, if we turn away from him that speaketh from heaven: (Hebrews 12:25) I heard about a little boy who was not getting good grades in school because he had [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><em>See  that ye refuse not him that speaketh.  For if they escaped not  who refused him that spake on earth, much more shall not we escape,  if we turn away from him that speaketh from heaven: </em> (Hebrews 12:25)</p>
<p>I  heard about a little boy who was not getting good grades in school  because  he had not been paying attention to his teacher.  One day, his  teacher sent a note home for his parents about his conduct and his  grades.   The next day, he came up to the teacher and said, “I don’t want  to scare you, but my dad told me last night that if I don’t start  getting better grades somebody’s going to get a spanking!”   However, we know the teacher is not the problem!  Bad things happen  when we do not pay attention.  I do not know how many times someone  has sat in my office who was desperately seeking help, and I heard them  say, “I wish I had listened.”  <strong>This concept of listening  is not just hearing; the idea is listening with the full intention of  heeding what is said.</strong></p>
<p>For  the past several weeks, we have been discussing how God speaks to us  in four distinct ways.  The first way is through Jesus’ blood;  the second way is through His Word; the third way is through His  Spirit.   Today we will discuss the final way that God speaks to us and that is  through <strong><em>others.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>God  speaks to us through the testimony of faithful believers.</strong> Hebrews 3:13 says, <em>“But exhort one another daily while it is called  To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.”</em> God&#8217;s plan is for us to encourage and uplift each other.  He speaks  to us through other believers.  Thank God for those people who  care enough about you to come alongside and say, “Listen, you need  to change this.  You need to dedicate your life to Christ.   You need to serve Him with your whole heart.”  Sometimes, people  resent those who correct them; that is foolish and dangerous.   God is speaking to you through their words.</p>
<p>Also,  understand that if you are listening to the voice of the Spirit of God  and walking in fellowship with the Lord, God wants to use you to  encourage  others.  Your words and your testimony and your encouragement can  make the difference for another believer who is struggling with  adversity.   Proverbs 25:11 says, <em>“A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold  in pictures of silver.”</em> So often we speak rashly, without  thinking about the impact of our words.  If we speak through the  flesh instead of the Spirit, we have a negative impact on the other  runners in the race.  God wants us to encourage and exhort each  other.</p>
<p>It  is interesting that this is not meant to be an occasional action—God  says to do it “<em>daily.”</em> You can be walking in fellowship  with God on Saturday and be walking away from God on Sunday.  We  need daily exhortation.  Not only can we be inspired by living  believers; but we can also learn from the pattern and example of those  who have gone before.  Hebrews 11:4 says, <em>“By faith Abel offered  unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain, by which he obtained  witness that he was righteous, God testifying of his gifts:  and by it he being dead yet speaketh.”</em> Abel has been in  Heaven for thousands of years, yet his testimony of faith still  encourages  us today.  Your testimony, whether good or bad, will outlive your  life.</p>
<p>I  first heard Richard Wurmbrand speak when I was sixteen years old.   He was a pastor in Romania, who spent fourteen years in a Communist  prison, being tortured for his faith.  When he walked to the pulpit,  I saw a little man, thin and emaciated, with hollowed out eyes and  sunken  in cheeks.  But, when he talked, his face lit up with a radiant  glow.  As he told the story of his ministry in the underground  church, God used his testimony to stir my heart.  He has been with  the Lord for several years now, but his voice is still speaking today.   The impact of his testimony is still encouraging and motivating me and  thousands of others who heard him speak.  That is the kind of testimony  I want to leave behind for the glory of God.  But, I can only leave  that testimony if I listen to His blood, His Word, His Spirit, and the  testimony of other faithful believers.  When you hear God speak,  do not refuse Him.  Do not turn away.  Do not turn back.   Obey His voice.  Run to Him and find His will.  Do His will and  forever you will be blessed. Listen to your teachers!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[FRIDAY SUGGESTIONS:  Directors, show your love every single week.  No matter how hard your week, no matter your personal struggles, no matter your battle-love them with humble transparency.  Humilty is allowing people to see you as you really are.  PROJECTION is killing our brethren.  Do not project yourself to be someone you are not.  It [...]


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<p>FRIDAY SUGGESTIONS:  Directors,  show your love every single week.  No matter how hard your week,  no matter your personal struggles, no matter your battle-love them  with humble transparency.  Humilty is allowing people to see you  as you really are.  PROJECTION is killing our brethren.  Do  not project yourself to be someone you are not.  It will wear you  out and those who follow you will be lost and wander aimlessly.   Only the Truth makes free!  Share your hurts and struggles, but  do so as a symbol of love for their hurts and struggles.  Don’t  share your struggles in a way in which they will feel sorry for you,  but rather in a way they will simply follow you.</p>
<p>INTERNATIONAL WORSHIPS &amp;  SHOPS: The Kingdom of God is a reward that is available both here  and now through an abiding agape relationship with Father God.   Heaven is a place of love and so can be our heart.  Please study  John 15 and pour the simple overflow of its truths to your students.   Prepare them for the “Way of Agape.”  And by all means, be  here for this year’s Conference!  I call every director, leader,  helper, and student to consider what could possibly be more important  on the week of September 27-30 than our International Workshops and  Conference.  Pastors, on behalf of our man of God, Dr. Kingsbury,  I would like to equally implore you to explore what God is doing through   the ministry of Reformers Unanimous everywhere else by visiting us  here.   In Rockford, we and our students are nothing without our church  and the “gates of hell support” she provides us.  Likewise,  your chapter will be nothing without your church and our churches are  useless assemblies of apathy without Jesus Christ-Agape Incarnate!</p>
<p>THANKS FOR A SUCCESSFUL GRAND OPENING:    Well, we didn’t crash the server, but we had one great Grand Opening  for our new Web Store!  Special thanks to Will Fowler for all his  work to improve the quality of our web store by tenfold or more!   Nearly 2,000 people visited in just one day.  Thanks for stopping  by and we hope you will continue to check out our weekly and monthly  specials.  As for now, we continue until the end of the month with  our sale of 30% off most every product.  If you haven’t invested  in your personal walk, please do so soon or miss out on the highest  savings ever offered.  Please remember some items are available  only while supplies last.</p>
<p>NEW CHAPTER WEB STORE COMING NEXT:   Chapter directors, secretaries, or chapter purchases &#8211; your site is  next!  Bro. Fowler continues his exemplary work in preparing a  high-powered, well-developed website offering many new “bells and  whistles.”  Bro. Barry is working on new chapter specials and  I am working on new  discount strategies  for awards and curriculum.   Yes!  We will soon be offering discounts that will reach  bookstore percentages.  As God has provided increased collective  buying power through chapter growth and vendor sacrifice, we are ramping   up strategies to become a greater source for addiction recovery and  relationship restoration.   So many hurting people are being  helped through the resources of Reformers Unanimous.  It truly  is a blessing to be a blessing.  But those blessings would fail  to abound and those discounts would never develop if it were not for  your desire to reach people.  Thanks for your agape love.   It’s the only way to bring the Truth to their life.</p>
<p>R.U.T.H. GRAND STAND:  Well, our  grand opening is just “around the corner” as we wait on the fire  marshall to test every single fixture and mechanical equipment.   Remember, rules are NOT a terror to good works (Romans 3:13).   If you quote that 1,000 times today, you will catch up with us!  J We  are having a PRE-GRAND OPENING this Sunday at 3pm and should gain  occupancy  next week and move in at the same time we anticipated-the first of  the month.  However, we will hold the actual Grand Opening until  we have done all of the above and can focus on making that event all  it should be.  We are begging God to provide the financing for  the costs of this remodel, less the charitable receipts to date.   Please join us in that prayer and consider whose life our home may  help.</p>
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