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		<description><![CDATA[Good  Morning!  Are you ready for the work week, or did you already complain  in your heart (or out loud) that it is time to go back to work?
Thus  far, in the first selection on murmuring, we have discussed how the  Spirit leads us in dealing with complaining and its negative [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Good  Morning!  Are you ready for the work week, or did you already complain  in your heart (or out loud) that it is time to go back to work?</p>
<p>Thus  far, in the first selection on murmuring, we have discussed how the  Spirit leads us in dealing with complaining and its negative influences  on our lives. Through faith we can use the positive plan, God promised  us, to deal with dissention among our fellow brothers.  We also  looked at how God intends us to lead others who engage in murmuring.  The second selection showed us that we need consultation and leading  from God to overcome Satan and his strategies.  The Lord leads  us to what we shall and shall not do, according to His will.  In  this third and final selection, we will complete the remaining Spirit-led  requirements, leaving us with a better understanding of what He would  have us do when encountered with murmuring, whether it is from others  or within ourselves.</p>
<p>Let  us begin with the fourth requirement from God; &#8220;Thou shall not focus  on the murmurers.&#8221;  As we continue to look at the Israelites in the  wilderness, God states in Exodus 16:6, &#8220;&#8230;You shall know that the  Lord hath brought you out from the land of Egypt.&#8221;  Here, Moses and  Aaron could have scorned against the Jews, however they would have been  taking on the Israelites&#8217; negative characteristics.   Leaders often  become prey to the very issues that irritate them.  They start  complaining about the complainers.  Moses never complained about  the Jews, despite their continued grumbling.  Often times, we complain  and lose out on the blessings, contentment, and peace, which God intends  for us.</p>
<p>Next,  we are instructed that, &#8220;Thou shall talk truth to the murmurers.&#8221;   In Exodus 16:7-8, the scripture states, &#8220;&#8230;then you shall see the  glory of the Lord.&#8221;  This was a positive statement about the future.   Sometimes there is pressure to compromise the truth, due to the consequences,  but we&#8217;ll never be good leaders if we fail to tell complainers the  truth.  Instruction six says, &#8220;Thou shall not bear the murmurers  alone.&#8221;  Exodus 16:9 states, &#8220;&#8230;Come near before the Lord.&#8221;   Moses used Aaron to speak to the congregation.  They were not only  brothers, but a team.  Aaron challenged the Jews to come near before  the Lord, &#8220;&#8230;for He hath heard your murmurings.&#8221;  If we are dissatisfied,  hungry, or hurt, we are to come near before the Lord.  This is  where you can get real, lasting help.</p>
<p>We  also see that, &#8220;Thou shall not point people to yourself.&#8221;   In Exodus 16:10, the Bible says, &#8220;&#8230;They looked toward the wilderness,  and the glory of the Lord appeared in the cloud.&#8221;  Moses told  Aaron, &#8220;We are not their saviors.&#8221;  The ego drives people to  look to others; however the Spirit always directs people to look towards  the Lord and not draw the focus on themselves.  You&#8217;ll never  be able to live up to the performance standard of God.</p>
<p>Finally,  we see, &#8220;Thou shall persevere until death.&#8221;  Dealing with those  who complain, whether it is in ministry, family, or business, ranks  high on the list of why leaders quit.  For instance, statements  are uttered like, &#8220;I&#8217;ve had it; I&#8217;m not putting up with this anymore!&#8221;   This was not an option for Moses.  Our success is not based on  how many people we change from being negative, to being content.   If you take that as the standard, even Moses was a flop.  A leader  is not here for the followers, but for Him.</p>
<p>In  conclusion, throughout these selections on murmuring, we&#8217;ve seen how  faith must be used to combat murmuring, both among others and within  ourselves and how good leadership is a reliance on God.  Our success  is measured by our willingness to remain faithful to the call of God,  with a good spirit, regardless of the situation.  Every leader  will be criticized.  God called us here to persevere.  It&#8217;s  inevitable that people will perpetually murmur.  Get over it and  move on.  Love God, serve the Lord, persevere, and enjoy a wonderful  week!</p>
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The Way is Agape
Learning to Live for  an Audience of One
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Reformers Unanimous  Presents …</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: large;">Adversity University  XII</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: x-large;">The Way is Agape</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: large;">Learning to Live for  an Audience of One</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This is a personal invitation from  Dr. Paul Kingsbury and me to you!  You are invited to attend the 12<sup>th</sup> annual RUI Adversity University. This year’s theme is one that is  very personal to me:  <strong><em>The Way is Agape: Learning to Live for an  Audience of One.</em></strong> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This conference is an effort to  elaborate  on a current focus in my life for myself, my family, and my staff: for  us to experience greater degrees of yielding to the agape love of our  heavenly Father.  I want God’s agape love both <em>experienced by us</em> and <em>expressed to others</em> by us with greater consistency.  But what now drives my focus is a growing desire</span><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"> </span><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">to see the same for the  RU Nation, all RU sponsoring  churches and their memberships, as well as the entire body of Christ  globally, for the benefit of the whole world! </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Registration is now  available online!</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">To find more information about the International Conference click </span><a title="here." href="http://au.reformu.com" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Cambria; color: #0000ff; font-size: medium;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">here</span></span></a><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: small;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">To register for the  conference click </span><a title="here." href="https://guest.cvent.com/EVENTS/Register/IdentityConfirmation.aspx?e=b2947199-6b7f-4c9d-88da-5b1e8a2ace79" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Cambria; color: #0000ff; font-size: medium;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">here</span></span></a><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This year’s Reformers Unanimous International Conference will begin on Monday night, September 27, 2010,   at 7:00 pm at North Love Baptist Church, and will end on Thursday,  September  30, 2010, at 1:00 pm.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Introducing…new  options for 2010!</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Early Worship Opportunities</strong> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">You are welcome to join us on the  Sunday  prior to the conference! (September 26)  Typically there is a Schools  of Discipleship graduation on the Sunday <em>following</em> the  conference,  but this year we will have our graduation presentation on the Sunday  evening preceding the conference. Everyone is invited to arrive early  for this wonderful worship opportunity and kick-off service.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Registration</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Early Bird check-in and registration  will begin on Sunday afternoon, September 26, at 4:00 pm.  It will  resume on Monday, September 27<sup>th</sup>, from 10:00 am through 6:30  pm.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>School of Discipleship Alumni Dinner</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This year, the Alumni of our Schools  of Discipleship, as well as their chapter directors, family, and friends   are invited to attend the 2010 Alumni Association Dinner to be held  on <strong>Monday, September 27</strong><sup><strong>th</strong></sup>, at 4:00 pm at the  Cliffbreakers Banquet Center just hours before the conference begins!   All alumni can attend this banquet at no charge; others can attend this  spectacular event for a very nominal fee.  Join us this fine evening  for a wonderfully chosen full-course dinner prepared at the exquisite  Cliffbreakers of Rockford as we celebrate the transforming power of  Christ! (This is a special time for all of our staff and former students   to reunite at our biggest time of the year.  We look forward to  seeing you!)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Special  Complimentary Luncheons</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">On Tuesday, Pastor Kingsbury would  like <em>all pastors and their wives</em> to join him for a special  luncheon.  Sign up while registering or at the door if uncertain of availability.  More details will be given at the conference. This is a complimentary  event and you don’t want to miss it!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">On Wednesday, the Curington’s and  Burks’ would like for all directors and their wives, as well as pastors  and their wives, to join them for a special luncheon. Sign up while  registering or at the door if uncertain of availability. More details  will be given at the conference. This is a complimentary event and you don’t want to miss it!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Envision the Vision XII</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This highlight event is an elegant  meal and time of reflection as we observe the great things God is doing  and is going to do as He turns the addicted back to God’s support  group, the local church, through Reformers Unanimous. We are blessed  again this year to have our keynote speaker is Dr. David Gibbs Jr.   All guests coming to Rockford should plan to attend this event. Please  choose ‘Yes’ on the registration option.  This is important  to help us prepare seating for the event. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Registration fees/meals</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">To make it easier for you to invite  more people from your chapter, we have decided to <strong>reduce the price </strong> of registration! The registration fee at only $79 per person remains  one of the lowest priced conferences in America!  This year, we  will be providing transportation to the diverse nearby restaurants to  enjoy meals for which the Midwest is known. We will also offer  concession  style food for those wanting to “lunch and munch” while remaining  on site. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Conference Themed T-Shirts  (Customized)</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This year we have customized t-shirts  available with our conference theme logo on the front with options to  add your chapter info on the back. <strong>If you would like one for your  team, please order for your chapter soon! </strong> To pre-order for you chapter, call Rennea at 815-986-0460 ext 136. All  orders received by September 15 will be available at the conference  for your group to enjoy.  Take this opportunity to show your chapter’s  colors brilliantly with matching t-shirts!  (A variety of colors  available.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Accommodations</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">Reformers Unanimous has partnered with  some of the best hotels in our region to be the conference hotels of  choice. You can view these hotels and book your room at deep conference  discount rates by visiting </span><a href="http://au.reformu.com/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Cambria; color: #0000ff; font-size: medium;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">http://au.reformu.com</span></span></a><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"> and clicking on the “Travel / Accomm.”  Tab. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">This year, we are releasing rooms for  those seeking low-cost accommodations for men or for ladies in either  our men or women’s dorms. You can choose this option in your  registration  process, but the low-cost $50 fee for the entire event and can only  be paid upon arrival.   You can choose this option in your  registration process. This will cost $50 for the entire event and will  be paid upon arrival.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;"><strong>Transportation</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: medium;">We are offering shuttle services from  O’Hare to Rockford for a roundtrip fee of $10 (normally $36).You will  see this option above the accommodations, and right below the Envision  the Vision Banquet. </span></p>
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		<title>The Benefits of Chastening</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[No matter who you are, whether you are  saved  or unsaved, life is difficult.  If you are unsaved, your life is  difficult because you do not have the Lord Jesus Christ in your life.   If you are saved, your life is difficult because you do have the Lord  Jesus Christ [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>No matter who you are, whether you are  saved  or unsaved, life is difficult.  If you are unsaved, your life is  difficult because you do not have the Lord Jesus Christ in your life.   If you are saved, your life is difficult because you do have the Lord  Jesus Christ in your life.  If you got saved thinking your life  would not be difficult any more, you were wrong.  Whether you are  saved or unsaved, life is difficult and full of trouble.  Now,  for the unsaved, there is no hope.  At the end of the road is Hell—a  lake of fire forever and ever.  For the saved, we can look forward  to a better land.  But, throughout life, we are going to be dealing  with pain and struggle and difficulty; and for those of us who are  saved,  the chastening hand of God.  In Hebrews 12:10, we see three purposes  that lie behind the chastening we receive. Today, we will discuss the  first purpose:</p>
<p>First, <strong> chastening is for pleasure</strong>.  <em>“For they verily for a few  days chastened us after their own pleasure.” </em> Now at first glance, this seems to be rather strange.  In fact,  chastening someone for pleasure would seem to be sadistic and sick.   But, God is not evil nor sadistic.  He does not take pleasure in  the fact that we are being chastened; the pleasure is because He knows  that <strong>chastening has divine blessing and benefit as its end result.</strong> If we are going to become what our Father intends for us to be, then  He must allow us to experience pain.  He takes pleasure, not in  our pain, but in what it will produce.</p>
<p>To  help you understand this, let&#8217;s look at the times God the Father said  He was pleased with His Son Jesus.  The first was when Jesus was  baptized.  After John baptized Jesus, a voice from Heaven said, <em> “This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.”</em> (Matthew  3:17)  What was it about Christ’s baptism that pleased the Father?   Baptism is a picture of the death, burial, and resurrection of Christ.   The Father was looking ahead to the suffering of His Son.  The  second time was on the Mount of Transfiguration.  Jesus was talking  to Moses and Elijah about His soon coming death.  Peter, James,  and John heard a voice from Heaven that said, <em>“This is my beloved  Son, in whom I am well pleased.”</em> (Matthew 17:5)</p>
<p>Was the Father pleased when Jesus  worked  miracles and preached the gospel?  Yes, He was.  In John 8:29  Jesus said, <em>“I do always those things that please him.”</em> The expression of God&#8217;s pleasure focused on Jesus&#8217; obedient suffering.   God was not pleased in seeing His Son hurt, but He was pleased in seeing   His Son’s obedience and His willingness to suffer unselfishly for  the sake of others.</p>
<p>There  are some lessons that we are not likely to learn in sermons; we learn  them through suffering.  We are born naturally selfish.  If  you have children, you know that our nature is “Me first.”   Kids do not have to go to school and take Selfishness 101—it comes  naturally.  The only way to overcome that trait is to be broken  through God&#8217;s divine chastening.  Selfish people make poor husbands,  poor wives, poor workers, and poor Christians.  <strong>Chastening helps  us to learn to please others rather than focusing on what pleases us.</strong></p>
<p>A  few years ago, my family and I had the privilege of seeing Rachel  Barton,  the world-renowned violinist from Chicago at a concert.  When she  came on to the stage, it was obvious that she walked with a severe  limp.   With great difficulty, she made her way to her seat and began to play.   I have never heard anyone else play with such emotion, beauty, and  grace.   We sat spellbound as we listened to her.  Later, I found out her  story.  When she was in her early twenties, Rachel was getting  off a train to teach violin lessons carrying her 400 year old Amati  violin worth more than half a million dollars.  The door of the  train closed on her shoulder and caught the violin case.  She was  dragged more than 350 feet by the train.  One leg was severed,  and the other was badly injured.  Rachel Barton could have given  up.  Instead, she continues to practice and play through the pain  for the pleasure of others.  Every pain that God brings or allows  into our lives has a purpose.  If we respond to it properly, that  purpose will be accomplished.  Remember, when we enduring chastening for the pleasure of others, it pleases God.</p>
<p><span>Have a wonderful day IN the Lord!</span><br />
<strong><span><span>Dr. Paul  A. Kingsbury</span></span></strong></p>
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		<title>The Source and Application of Understanding</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 09:50:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Psalm 119:97-104, “MEM. O how love I thy law! it is my meditation all the day.  (98)  Thou through thy commandments hast made me wiser than mine enemies: for they are ever with me.  (99)  I have more understanding than all my teachers: for thy testimonies are my meditation.  (100)  I understand more than the ancients, [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Psalm 119:97-104, <em>“MEM. O how love I thy law! it is my meditation all the day.  (98)  Thou through thy commandments hast made me wiser than mine enemies: for they are ever with me.  (99)  I have more understanding than all my teachers: for thy testimonies are my meditation.  (100)  I understand more than the ancients, because I keep thy precepts.  (101)  I have refrained my feet from every evil way, that I might keep thy word.  (102)  I have not departed from thy judgments: for thou hast taught me.  (103)  How sweet are thy words unto my taste! yea, sweeter than honey to my mouth!  (104)  Through thy precepts I get understanding: therefore I hate every false way.”</em></span></p>
<p>The knowledge gained through the study of the Bible is intended to be more than mere idle speculation. Such is often the case for those religious scholars who boast of their prowess in the original languages and their intellectual mastery of the Bible’s content but who demonstrate, on the other hand, little or no concern for its Divine origin or its absolute truth. That kind of knowledge is far removed from the understanding this “MEM” stanza is talking about. Spiritual understanding is exclusively for those who love the Lord with a pure heart, and are willing to walk in the light of His precious Word.</p>
<p>“Through thy precepts I get understanding…” (vv. 97-100). Understanding requires study, and God is concerned with how we study too. Have you ever noticed how easy it is to study material you really enjoy and, conversely, how difficult it is to dig into subject matter you simply do not care about? The former is more profitable, right? So it is with the Word. God wants us to love His Word, and we will if sin is not allowed to harden our hearts and dull our receptivity to the Holy Spirit’s speaking through it. The psalmist loved God&#8217;s law, and pondered its truth night and day. It is no wonder then that the fruit of his meditation resulted in an astuteness that surpassed all the learned, and even his enemies (vv. 98-100). Notice, too, the connection between the ability to understand the Word and a disposition to obey it: “I understand… because I keep thy precepts” (v. 100). Many times we rebel against God and then wonder why the Bible has lost its sweetness and attraction. There is no mystery here at all; we know what needs to be done.</p>
<p>… Therefore I hate every false way” (vv. 101 – 104). How contrary this statement is to what we hear on every hand today. We are told to be positive, not negative; to look for the good in everything, even if that means that what is bad is consciously overlooked. Oh, no! When the Bible speaks to a matter, whatever is contrary to the eternal Standard must be labeled as such and handled accordingly. There is no virtue whatsoever and soft pedaling what God has said is wrong. The Holy Spirit will never lead us to endorse what God has condemned, or accept what God has rejected. Meditate on these concluding verses and then ask yourself if God would have us focus on that which is a bit negative at times.  You may be amazed at what you discover!<br />
Have a wonderful day IN the Lord!<br />
Dr. George Crabb D.O.</p>
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		<title>Coming Boldly before the throne of Grace</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 09:50:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We  have been talking about those who seek God’s mercy.  Now let  us discover how we may obtain this mercy from God?   Hebrews 4:15 says, “For we have not an high priest which cannot  be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points  tempted like as [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>We  have been talking about those who seek God’s mercy.  Now let  us discover <strong><em>how</em></strong> we may obtain this mercy from God?   Hebrews 4:15 says, <em>“For we have not an high priest which cannot  be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points  tempted like as we are, yet without sin.</em>”  We want to start  with considering the Lord Jesus Himself.  I want you to remember  in your need for mercy, that you have a Savior in Heaven Who understands   your dilemma. Jesus never did drugs, but he knows what it is like to  have a craving that is almost overwhelming, a desire to escape reality.  He knows what it is like to be tempted to go get drunk. He knows what  it is like. Every temptation that we will ever face in our lives, Jesus  faced a similar temptation, yet without ever yielding to sin.   How could God have mercy on a sinner except God take on the form of  a sinner and endure what it is like to be a sinner? That is how Jesus  can be our merciful and faithful high priest.  When you have need  of mercy, you need to consider Jesus and run to that throne of grace.</p>
<p>Second,  to receive mercy we must come boldly.  Hebrews 4:16 makes it clear, <em> “</em><em>Let us therefore come  boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find  grace to help in time of need.”</em> This  phrase means “to approach frankly, bluntly, candidly, truthfully,  and with confidence.” I know we all have certain “canned” prayers.  If I asked you to pray for a meal, and you pray for the meal, chances  are next week if I ask you to pray for a meal, it is going to sound  very much like the prayer you said last week.  I am not being critical  of those things at all, but when the Bible talks about coming boldly  before the throne of grace, it means “<strong>to come with a transparent  honesty.”</strong> This is a person who comes to God and says, “Life  has brought me to the very end of my rope, and I&#8217;m losing my grip. I  have no more mercy to give them. I need mercy from You, or I am not  going to make it.”</p>
<p>I  live on Riverside Boulevard, on the other side of Interstate 90 from  our church.  There is a bridge there that I think they have been  rebuilding for a hundred years now.  When you go eastbound on Riverside,   there are signs up that say stay in right lane, lane closure ahead.  When I get to McFarland Road, I have to get in the right-hand lane.   I am following the traffic laws and I am in the right lane, even though  there is more traffic there.  Invariably, someone comes along in  the left lane and tries to cut into my lane in front of me at the last  second.  What is the natural reaction?  I want to give them  a piece of my mind.  I want to lay on the horn.  I want to  cut them off.  What do I do?  I flee to the throne of grace  for more mercy!  I do not want to give them any mercy at all, but  I need to. That is the way my life is…and the way your life is. This  illustration my not seem like that big of a deal, but the truth is,  there are always going to be people around us who need mercy and then  need more mercy.</p>
<p>What  do you do when you run out?  You stop and think about the wonderful  Savior we have Who loves you in spite of who you are, or where you are  and what you have done; and you go back to Him and you say, “I&#8217;m here,  and I&#8217;ll admit to You that I don&#8217;t deserve anything from You but  judgment,  but I need a big dose of mercy today.” Come boldly to the throne  of grace because the outcome is already settled; you can obtain mercy.   The word <em>obtain</em> means “to accept with amazement.” It is amazing  that we can give mercy to others, but it is even more amazing that God  extends mercy to us in the first place.</p>
<p>Let  me close with this analogy.  We talked earlier about our tendency  to loosen our grip and let things drift.  We have been offered  “grace to help in time of need.”  This help is like taking  a rope and tying our vessel tight to the moorings to stop our tendency  to drift away.” When you come boldly before the throne of God&#8217;s  grace, you will obtain mercy, you will find grace to wrap ropes tightly  around your grip to help you stay tied to the moorings. So, where do  we go when we run out of mercy? Go to Him. Go to that throne of grace,  obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.</p>
<p><span>Have a wonderful day IN the Lord!</span><br />
<strong><span><span>Dr. Paul  A. Kingsbury</span></span></strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[This “JOD”  stanza, in Psalm 119, deals with the personal blessings and instruction  received after experiencing the refining fire of adversity. A renewed  desire for fellowship with the righteous is a key element in this  revival,  as well as a keener awareness of the plight of the wicked.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>This “JOD”  stanza, in Psalm 119, deals with the personal blessings and instruction  received after experiencing the refining fire of adversity. A renewed  desire for fellowship with the righteous is a key element in this  revival,  as well as a keener awareness of the plight of the wicked.</p>
<p>“Let, I pray  thee, thy merciful kindness be for my comfort&#8230;” (vv. 75-77.) Though  undeserving, we are afforded tender mercies from our Lord which  transcend  anything this world could ever offer. Why do we look for comfort  anywhere  else when we have all in Christ Jesus? Why do we question our Fathers  care when we are called upon to bear a heavy burden or go through a  difficult circumstance? The psalmist learned through his experience  that God&#8217;s judgments were right, and that even if these judgments  resulted  in his own affliction, God was faithful in accomplishing his purpose  verse 75. The psalmist desired God&#8217;s best as promised in God&#8217;s Word.  Our prayer should reflect what we, too, have learned in the Word and  through experience: perfect peace and overcoming love are found only  in our Lord.</p>
<p>“Let those  that fear thee turn unto me&#8230;” (vv.74, 78-79.) Victorious grace  manifested  in the midst of affliction is a blessing to others; the saint who has  proven the trustworthiness of the Word by experience is a joy to the  righteous verse 74. Notice too how the psalmist seeks out the fellowship   of those who have a reverence for God and a respect for His Word in  verse 79. Yes, Christian maturity places an extremely high value upon  right fellowship with faithful believers who are dedicated to the way  of righteousness and bear the marks of a courageous life on the front  lines of the battle. Not so for those who have “dealt perversely”;  they will be ashamed.</p>
<p>“Let my heart  be sound in thy statutes&#8230;” (vv. 73, 80.) The sovereign Creator  fashioned  man to live for the pleasure of His tender mercies (verse 77,) and  quickened  the spirit of the redeemed to learn His perfect will (verse 73.) He  also renewed the heart of the inner man so that its spiritual vitality  and soundness will only be experienced when that heart is set on “thy  statutes.” It is no wonder then that a life opposed to the Word is  destined for shame and utter confusion.</p>
<p>Time and again  we see the integral link between meditation and the Word and enjoying  God&#8217;s blessing in the life. May we purpose to walk in its light today.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Have a wonderful day IN the Lord!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">Dr. George  Crabb, D.O.</span></span></p>
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		<title>Don&#039;t Be a Stupid Baby Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Will Fowler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know every parent thinks that their baby is the smartest baby on the planet. I&#8217;m no exception I really think Bobby is exceptionally smart. As I have meditated on it lately I have noticed a great deal that we can learn from a smart baby like bobby that we can apply to our Christian [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>I know every parent thinks that their baby is the smartest baby on the planet. I&#8217;m no exception I really think Bobby is exceptionally smart. As I have meditated on it lately I have noticed a great deal that we can learn from a smart baby like bobby that we can apply to our Christian lives. How you ask? Well the Bible compares developing Christians to babies, and children, and God as our father. By looking at what makes a smart baby cry out to his parents we too can be smart babies. The following our some reasons that Bobby cries out to his daddy.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold">1. He’s Hungry</span><br />Bobby has a tremendous appetite for food, and when he hungry he has a habit of crying out for food. 1 Peter 2:2  tells us, As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby. The word of God is a key element for us to grow up in God be strong Christians. If you do not have a daily hunger for the word then be a smart baby and cry to God for him to make you hungry, and to show you things from the Bible that &#8220;feed&#8221; you.</p>
<p>Babies that are not hungry are said to have a failure to thrive, and yet I think many Christians have this failure, and that is why we are so fleshly. The word of God is:
<ul>
<li>A bath that cleans us up (Eph. 5:25-33 John 17:19)</li>
<li>A mirror that show us to ourselves (James 1:22-25)</li>
<li>A fire that melts our hardened heart (Jeremiah 23:29)</li>
<li>A surgical knife that divides our soul and spirit (Hebrews 4:12)</li>
</ul>
<p>Don&#8217;t be a stupid baby fulfill your hunger with the Word of God.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold">2. He’s Hurt </span><br />Another things that makes Bobby cry for his parents is when he hurts himself. Just about 100 times a day Bobby goes somewhere he should not, or climbs on something he shouldn&#8217;t , and hurts himself. He has no problem letting us know he&#8217;s hurt.</p>
<p>Unfortunately the American Christians have been trained to be stupid babies and so we don&#8217;t cry out when were hurt. From John Wayne telling us to be a tough cowboy to preachers telling us just to forget our past we have Christians everywhere with open festering emotional wounds denying that anything is wrong. God didn&#8217;t just come to take you to heaven he came that you might have an abundant life there is nothing particularly abundant about Christians who are wounded, mean, and addicted to prescription drugs.</p>
<p>Jesus Christ is The Light and The Balm as the Light he reveals the pain as the Balm he heals but as long as we cover our wounds with the superficial bandaid of forgetting or ignoring he can&#8217;t reveal, and he can&#8217;t heal. We must cry out and ask his help to heal. Below is a multistep process for involving Jesus in your emotional healing process.</p>
<p><span> The </span><span>first</span><span> step is to </span><span>ACKNOWLEDGE</span> the need for healing. For us to receive the healing of emotional wounds, we must first acknowledge that we are hurting (Matthew 9:10-13, Revelation 3:17). Many of us have lied to ourselves as well as to others. We have said, &#8220;I&#8217;m really O.K.&#8221; or &#8220;It really doesn&#8217;t matter that much.&#8221;
<p>    The <span>second</span> step is to <span>LOCATE</span> the cause of the pain. In the physical realm, we may have a pain in our legs, but the cause may be a pinched nerve in the spine. To operate on the legs would be the wrong procedure. A youth may have severe problems getting along with his peers at school, when the real source of the pain is from an abusive stepparent at home. A wife may feel enormous pain every time her husband disciplines one of the children. However, the pain she feels may originate from her own emotional wounds as a child. </p>
<p>    We may unconsciously associate one hurt with another. Furthermore, time itself, does not heal hurts. Only God does! Therefore, with each new conflict, we pick up additional baggage. It is therefore important that we locate and separate each painful experience. This is the work of the Holy Spirit (Psalm 139:23-24). </p>
<p>    The <span>third</span> step is to <b>CLEANSE</b> the wound. If you received a deep wound in your hand and you left the wound open, it would sooner or later get contaminated and infected. The same is true in the emotional area. Emotional hurts are an open wound for unforgiveness, anger, bitterness, depression, and anxiety to enter. The Bible implies that we may <i>&#8220;give place to the devil&#8221;</i> when we are angry longer than one day (Ephesians 4:26-31). Therefore, these critters may be more than just harmful emotions, they may also be evil spirits (Matthew 18:34). </p>
<p>    For cleansing to occur, (1) we must forgive those who have offended us, (2) ask God for to forgive and cleanse us (I John 1:9) for our unforgiveness, (3) yield that area unto the Lord, (4) request that God restore our soul (Psalm 23:3) in the area yielded to the enemy, and (5) use the name of Jesus to drive out the enemy. </p>
<p>    The <b>fourth</b> step is to <b>Accept HEALING</b> of the hurt. God gives us two distinct pictures of healing in Scripture. One picture is that of God calling off the enemy (Deuteronomy. 7:15). This picture relates to the cleansing of the wound. The other picture is one of mending the net (Exodus 15:26). </p>
<p>    After the physician cleanses the victim&#8217;s wound, he sews it up so that it will not become contaminated again. Forgiveness opens the door to freedom, but forgiveness is not healing. Without our receiving healing, the wound again becomes contaminated. However, when God mends the wound, He also <span>heals</span> the wound. </p>
<p>    We may receive healing by (1) understanding that Jesus suffered all kinds of emotional hurts (Isaiah 53:3) and that he became a hurt substitute (Isaiah 53:4) for us , and (2) believing that Jesus was sent to heal the broken hearted (Luke 4:18), and (3) asking in faith for that healing. When God heals the wound, we may recall the experience without being flooded by the pain. </p>
<p>    The <b>fifth</b> step is to <b>STRENGTHEN</b> the weak area. Again, in the physical, the area around the wound may remain weak even after the healing occurs. This is also true of emotional wounds. The enemy will try to get us to focus our thoughts (II Corinthians 10:4-5) on the event that brought the hurt. If this occurs, we may mentally pick at the area until we have opened a new wound. </p>
<p>    Therefore, it is critical that we strengthen that area by applying the Word of God. (1) We need to see that God had a purpose in allowing us to be wounded (Genesis. 50:20). (2) We need to see that God can work all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). (3) We need to come to rejoice in the Lord over the experience (Philippians. 4:4). (4) We need to develop and share our testimony with others (Revelation 12:11).  </p>
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